I know these work well for guys, but what about gals? As much as I'd like to go ultralight, I've yet to meet a lady who could handle NOT having a hipbelt. I tried a GoLite (fully stuffed) on at the Ruck '99 and found that it tugged at my neck too much, just like my Lowe rucksack does. Any input on ultralight packs from the ladies? Cheers, Navigator