[pct-l] Tipping
Pea Hicks
phix at optigan.com
Mon Dec 25 12:56:54 CST 2006
hi andrea-
here's a thought. maybe a naive one, but reverse psychology is often the
best way to go about this. if you don't make it known that you accept
tips or donations of any sort, this does two things. first, it creates
an extra sense of gratitude in the mind of the conscientious hiker, that
you would do all this and suggest that nothing at all is expected (or
possibly not even accepted) in return. most hikers will respond to this
generosity accordingly. second, you avoid the "group mentality" effect
where, if someone sees a tip jar with money in it, or even just a sign
saying that tips/donations are accepted, many will inevitably/wrongly
think "oh, everyone else will leave a donation, so i don't have to."
another thing is that openly asking for tips/donations can tend to
create a bit of confusion for hikers- "so, is a tip/donation fully
expected? is that just their polite way of saying that we're expected to
pay for their services?" etc etc.
anyway, just thought i'd throw this out there. i, for one, was very
grateful for your help and hospitality- even that far along, us pathetic
hikers still need as much support, wherever it appears!!
and i'd like to thank you and jerry once again and wish you a very happy
holiday!! :)
girlscout
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